There I will tell you about 7 unique ways to be wiser. You can use these ways to be wiser with any component in a very little time. These ways can help you fulfill your dreams without hurdles. These ways would help you live your life with a better conscience. You can start your journey of your life with considering these ways by revealing the hidden characteristics of your personality. A person with a proficient consensus with his work life or any other consent with his entire approach of the life cycle would quickly notice the worth of this article.
1. Always plan
2. Don’t reveal your ideas
3. Accept the imperfection
4. Be patient
5. Speak quality not quantity
6. Don’t show off
7. Let go of whatever becomes past
1. Always plan:
Live your every single moment with the plan. The more you plan your routine the more you feel accomplish and comprehensive. With planning your daily life and goals you will be able to find out what you’re capable of. Planning is something might doesn’t always cover everything but planning provides you the vision and the motivation of triumph. When you plan your life, your goals, your week, your day or even your hour to spend, your life becomes calculated, smooth and after achieving what you decide genuinely you grow into subsequent level of your life. Hypothetical arrangements help to sort things out on factual basis. Make a time table of your tasks put a tick mark in front of the task you finished. This would help you realize your level of stability and you will no longer feel like you haven’t done or can’t do anything. This will surly help you to plan your daily routine task and must help you accomplish them.
2. Don’t reveal the ideas:
Idea is one’s really own part of awareness. let’s just take it this way, you have a picture you show that picture to someone else you’d see that other person has some different way to see the picture than yours then you show it to some more different people and they come up with the so many different ways of seeing the picture. Maybe one has the same opinion like yours but it’s unusual it’s rare. So the point is every brain and every eye has diversity. This is the beauty of humans that they are different. Now you see when you have something so dissimilar and eccentric in the form of idea. Keep it to yourself until you transform the idea in some action. People may like your ideas but ideas become useless and impractical when they been stolen. Why people will take your ideas? Why you have to keep it a secret unless you have it in a shareable complete form?
Everyone like to save the time and collect the free appreciation. No one ignores the so welcoming opportunity without effort. Or may be sharing your idea before the right time would make you cost all your effort of thinking and planning by losing the lure of the game. So don’t announce your designed thoughts in a shape of intangible feelings. Give people something to see or touch as your success or your energy towards your destiny.
3. Accept the imperfection:
It’s natural that human seek for perfection but being imperfect is also natural. No matter what task we are assigned to there is always a room for mistake. Acceptance towards the error provides the courage of recreation. This is the process towards progression. You do mistakes, realize them, accept them, take responsibility of doing them and then reform the whole pattern. There you go, you have step by step achieved success. You can see that success can’t be happened without mistakes. It does not just happened success craves for imperfection. But it’s never just about doing mistakes it’s about how generously and honestly you accept them. Accept the flaw you own makes you perfect. You can’t change or rebuild any aspect of your personality just because it’s wrong. In order to do that you have to accept it with wide arms first. This is side to side journey towards success.
4. Be patient:
We all want everything on instant note. We live a very impatient life. Fact of the matter is when we don’t process we don’t grow. The growth comes with the process and the process carries patience. I believe if we don’t become patient towards the route leading us to the development, we lose passion, joy, stability and these dots connectively push us not towards the destination only, they compile our all the power and make us a person with heap of magic. When we hand over our plans to time, Time helps us finish them may be not in time but with liberality. We can’t achieve our goals with intense power or immediate force. If we push ourselves to instant vibes, we become like those moths who get attracted to the light but can’t bear the heat, keep flying around the light but can’t touch it or stay on it any longer. Like it or not, not everyone gets the lift we have to take stairs.
5. Speak quality not quantity:
God has given us the soft, red velvet tongue connected through our mind, generating so much ideas with energy. So try to use this organ to share worthy ideas and advises on the right moment. Quality talk not only develops our temperament it matures our integrity. Less but fine words give us the control, sharpen our senses and increase the magnitude of our words. Whereas quantity of talking moves us towards regrets, judgments, deceptions, gossips and more. Quantity of words may help to lose other’s interest in your point of talking. So much talk without a genuine opinion is nothing but noise and we very well know that everyone gets irritated with noise. Quantitative talk only be good when it is the conversation of typical choices we make to say. Very rare of us have both skills to develop the chat like they are quality talkers as well as can quantitatively talk.
6. Don’t show off:
Showing off is when you have something to show but you don’t have something to own. Because if you own something you don’t have to show it off unless its important. When we show off something or even some emotions we in real want to tell people that we in real have those stuff we want to show but actually we don’t own that thing or emotion in real. We fabricate that emotion or we specifically arrange that thing just to display to take the consideration or wanted emotion from others. In natural terms, we fake it. So what we own already been shown to people like naturally. What you own in real, people already acknowledge that. People recognize what you are and you have. They may be manipulate but who would risk his/her life chances just to please people. Yes..! Some do that but who can tell them to keep your guard up. Showing off is very different from sharing. People confuse these both facets by mixing them up. Sharing something or emotions with people is your heartily need. You can’t even breathe without it. In order to live you need to cooperate with the society and society wants us to share our opinions with each other so we can know others and others can identify us. Showing things off for some unreasonable purpose is not sharing and it does not make us recognizable. It just increases some assumptions about us.
7. Let go of whatever becomes past:
Holding whatever has become former is similar as you keep writing with a lead pencil which is totally worn out. There is a saying “Past is in the past” which explains whatever happened… happened. It is not moving with you further. It is not happening now. It is invisible. You cannot see your past. You may memorize it but can’t see it or touch it in present. This is very simple to understand you carry something which is not needed anymore, a waste and used it can be emotion, thoughts, incidents, memories. They only work as filler in your present moment. Don’t make the fillers become annotated. Make yourself new every day that is how you learn novelty. You have observed that in cars there is a small mirror to see in the back. But to see what is in front of you, you my dear have a large wind screen. Wrap up your everyday which has to become the part of the past and be ready to move forward not only physically but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
